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5 Advice For Casual Sex On A Date
5 Advice For Casual Sex On A Date
From TV series, movies to social media, casual sex seem to be evident and is the new norm. Also known as one-night stands or hookups, casual sex has allowed people to explore and experience their sexuality without the pressure of a relationship. So, if you’re thinking of dipping your toe in this unfamiliar water, here are some tips for making your casual sex… uhm, casual.
1. Consent is Mandatory
While it may be “casual”, you want to have consensual sex. Not getting consent to have sex is sexual assault and/or rape in some form. This is both illegal and immoral with serious consequences for both parties. So, make sure that you abstain from sex with an impaired or drunk date. If your date seems hesitant or reluctant, then ask them if they still want to do it or stop. You can also try slowing things down to let them catch up.
Some people think that asking for consent can kill the mood or excitement which is a part of the appeal of casual sex. However, a quick “Is this okay” in the heat of your passion will not completely derail the hot encounter.
2. Try Virtual Sex
In this age where the internet and smartphones are a necessity and there is an app for everything, dating apps and dating sites have paved the way for virtual sex.
Virtual sex is anything that’s sexual in nature happening in the digital space. This includes any sexual activity with or on the internet— phone sex, video chat, long-distance sexual play enabled by sextech and toys, free sex dating, sexting, and even interactive pornography. If you want to try casual sex but don’t want to physically do it with a stranger, then virtual sex can help you get off digitally.
3. Make It Hot But Don’t Stray Too Far
Casual sex tends to be a one-time thing. So, there’s absolutely nothing that holds you back. You can put out all your moves to get you hot within reasons. You can try different positions and up your pleasure dial.
But then again, you don’t want to move too far from your comfort zone. A one-night stand may not be a good time to try anal sex for the first time. Consider sticking to what you know and what you like while also being sensitive to what your partner likes.
4. Be Safe
If you are having casual sex, then you need to accept that condoms will always be a necessity. So, stock up on condoms. Don’t even argue with how it feels better without one. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
Also, know that condoms won’t protect you from everything such as HPV and herpes, so make sure to ask the questions about the latest testing or if they always use protection. Want a piece of hot advice? Get different kinds of condoms so you can switch up every night.
5. Be a Decent Host/Polite Guest
Regardless of how casual the sex is, it’s just plain rude to just kick someone out your door at 4 am. So, let them sleepover and even make them a cup of coffee in the morning.
If you’re the guest, you don’t have to cuddle until morning and send a mixed message. If you can, you can try sneaking out in early morning and make sure to leave a cheery note.
Conclusion
Gone are the days where hookups and casual sex is considered a grave sin. Still, there are rules you need to play by to ensure that both parties have the most amazing night ever!
